You’re no longer a strap-on newbie. You’ve got your favorite strap-on harness. You’ve got your favorite dildo. You have your lube of choice. But have you reached strap-on enlightenment? Have you really pushed this sexual experience as far as it can go? Is there perhaps room for improvement with your thrusting game?
Don’t get me wrong, using a strap-on never gets boring. There are countless positions, new dildos to experiment with, and new ways to connect with your partners while strapping. That being said, there are ways to elevate the experience for both the giver and receiver. No matter which hole is being pounded, there are toys, tools, and new ideas to make you the top topper in the bedroom!
The Best Toys To Make Strap-On Sex Even More Enjoyable
The number one complaint we hear from strap enthusiasts is how the base of a dildo can hurt a pubic mound. Thrust in peace with several new dildo cushion options! The Banana Pants Kissi not only acts as a cushion but can vibrate too if you add on the additional Puck Vibrator! For folks with bottom growth (or without!), The Lippi might be an exciting addition in the bedroom! Adding a soft cushion to strap-on sex, there are also grooves to grind into that’ll make topping even hotter.
A little elevation to the hips can go a long way when it comes to enjoying penetrative sex. The Liberator Heart Wedge Pillow will raise a bottom’s hips while supporting their back and mesh with your room’s cute aesthetic.
Adding some extra stimulation can also heighten strap-on sex, such as the Love To Love Make Me Quiver Clitoral Serum. Strapping someone’s back hole? Provide some sweet aftercare with Dr. Tush’s After Butt Play Gel, which provides soothing and cooling relief after anal sex.
If you’ve only used strap-on harnesses that fit over the hips, you’re only at the start of your journey! Experimenting and playing with dildo harnesses that fit elsewhere on the body allows you to use your hands in new ways, create new intimate experiences, and try out different positions. Try the Ultra Thigh Strap-On Harness—or if you really want to get wild, the Pivot Foot Strap-On Harness.
Adding a butt plug can make penetrative sex even more enjoyable! Try out the Fun Factory Booty Femme Fun, which is specifically designed for this purpose. The B-Vibe Weighted Butt Plugs are another stellar addition to strap-on sex. Their weight fills you up, and the long, thin, flexible neck ensures you still have the freedom to move and change positions while banging.
As you can see, there's a lot out there in the wild world of strap-on sex! If you're newer on your journey or just need a change, check out our blog post The Best Strap-On Harness For Queer And Trans Folks. And if you want a laugh, check out If The Shoe Fits, So Does The Strap!