Shopping for your first strap-on harness–-or upgrading to a new one–can be incredibly overwhelming. There's just so much out there! With a wide range of designs and price tags, figuring out where to begin (or what to try next) can be tricky. Don’t let your decision fatigue keep you from banging your next lover! Heavy are the hips that wear the strap and we truly believe there’s a strap on for every hip–no matter your gender or experience level!
For Beginners
The Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness is literally designed with first-timers in mind, so it’s an excellent starting point. If you’re not plus-size, check out the Sportsheets Entry Level Strap On Harness. Both are similar in simplicity, but the Plus Size Beginners Strap comes with extra padding to prevent the straps from digging into your skin making it a comfy choice while getting down & dirty. These harnesses are easy to wear and adjust and the low price points don’t hurt either. While this might not be your forever strap, they’re perfect for starting your journey.
For Trans Women
The truth is there isn’t one “perfect” harness for anyone, and trans women are no exception. Don’t worry if there’s some trial and error during the strap-on journey. Whether pre-op or post-op, many harnesses can work for you! The SpareParts Joque Harness is both comfortable and adjustable. For those who are pre-op, the soft and stretchy front panel can accommodate a penis while staying snug and sturdy against your body for a solid fuckfest.
Another great option is to pair a simple harness, such as the Sportsheets Leather Strap On, with a pair of cute panties underneath. You decide your own sexy aesthetic while getting dirty with your lover!
For Trans Men
The SpareParts Tomboii Harness is a sexy and practical strap on in the style of a pair of boxers. With no buckles or straps, it’s easy to slip on or to wear out and about. The harness has two O-rings, allowing for customizable play depending on the toy and the bodies involved. Plus, it has a built-in packing pouch, making it our number one recommendation for pack and play! 
For Tired Hips
Give your hips a break with the The Ultra Thigh Strap On Plus Size or The Sportsheets Thigh High Strap On! These harnesses wrap around your thigh, letting your partner grind against you while your hands are free to touch yourself, play with their nipples or do something else delightfully dirty!
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And Let's Not Forget Strap On Harnesses For Perverts
The Pivot In Your Face Strap On gives face sitting a whole new meaning! Sex is supposed to be fun, so why not get a little weird with it!
Just to reiterate, there’s no one-size-fits-all harness. These suggestions might not be the perfect fit for everyone; however they can be a great starting point in finding what works best for you!