The Basics: Where To Buy Queer-Inclusive Sex Toys
Welcome to THE BASICS series on the Bedroom Besties Love Letters Blog. THE BASICS is where Bedroom Besties explains everything you need to know about queer sex toys for LGBTQ+ folks! Read part one here!
When it comes to queer-friendly, gender-affirming sex toys, not all retailers are created the same. Many mainstream sex shops still cater primarily to cisgender, heteronormative audiences, making it difficult to find inclusive, body-safe pleasure products designed with LGBTQ+ needs in mind. Luckily, there are several queer and trans owned and operated sex toy shops – and we’re one of them!
Here at BedroomBesties.com—a queer-owned, body-positive online sex shop that prioritizes gender-affirming, nonbinary, and dysphoria-safe pleasure products—we know that you want to see how the toys you desire are used by LGBTQ+ folks. We want shopping on our site to be a mix of fun, filthy and informative. Other sex toy companies will show you a photo of the products they carry, but we want to go one step further.
On our site you’ll see queer and trans individuals and couples of all gender identities, sexualities, abilities and sizes. Representation matters–and it does make shopping more fun!
So, why Choose BedroomBesties.com?
Bedroom Besties isn’t just another online sex toy shop—it’s a safe, inclusive space built for the LGBTQ+ community. Here’s why it’s the best place to shop for queer-inclusive sex toys:
🏳️🌈 Gender-Affirming & LGBTQ+ Focused
Unlike mainstream adult stores, Bedroom Besties curates products specifically for trans, nonbinary, and queer folks, ensuring that pleasure isn’t restricted by outdated gender norms. We attempt to use queer-friendly and gender neutral language and never assume who might be interested in which toys. We offer many trans friendly vibrators, strokers, dildos, packers as well as rings, BDSM toys, lingerie for all genders, queer books and a whole gender euphoria section.
🛡️ Body-Safe & High-Quality Materials
All products on Bedroom Besties are body-safe, meaning you won’t find cheap, toxic materials like jelly, rubber or plastic. Our toys are easy to clean and phthalate-free. For insertable toys, we prioritize medical-grade silicone for hypoallergenic pleasure and easy-to-sanitize toys. We also carry glass and stainless steel sex toys for a sleek, body-safe experience. Non-insertable toys such as some strokers and some packers are made from TPE/TPR and are safe to use on the outside of your body.
🚚 Discreet, Queer-Affirming Shipping
Shopping for sex toys products can feel intimidating, especially if you’re worried about privacy! We understand what it’s like to be living with parents or nosy roommates! Bedroom Besties offers discreet packaging in plain, unmarked boxes. Our shipping is fast and reliable. We try to answer emails as soon as they come in if there’s any questions about shipping.
🛒 Best-Selling Queer-Inclusive Sex Toys at Bedroom Besties
If you’re not sure where to start, check out our blog post How To Pick Gender-Affirming Sex Toys For Your Needs. If you’re curious about what else we have to offer, here are some of our most popular queer collections:
💜 Humping & Grinding Toys
💜 Representational Dildos
💜 Gender Euphoria Collection
💜 Pumps For Penises, Pussies and T-Dicks
💜 Lingerie For All Bodies And Genders
✨Celebrating Queer & Trans Pleasure Through NSFW Photos
One of the most unique and powerful features of BedroomBesties.com is the commitment to prioritizing NSFW photos centering queer and trans bodies—a rarity in mainstream sex toy retailers. While many adult shops cater almost exclusively to cisgender, heteronormative audiences, Bedroom Besties creates an affirming, sexy, and educational space where queer pleasure is front and center. We’re kink enthusiasts, sex worker supporters and not afraid to be loud, proud and horny!
🌈 Representation That’s Fun, Informational & Sexy
Sex should be visible, celebrated, and normalized—but too often, queer and trans bodies are left out of conversations around sex. Instead of the same cis-centric imagery found on most sites, Bedroom Besties spotlights real queer, trans, and nonbinary people enjoying their bodies and desires.
✔ Real LGBTQ+ representation—not just tokenization.
✔ Affirming, non-shaming imagery that highlights pleasure in all its forms.
✔ Inclusive depictions of sex toys in action—showing how they work with different bodies.
✔ A judgment-free, body-positive approach that makes shopping empowering, not alienating.
📸 Why NSFW Photos Matter for Queer & Trans Pleasure
We understand that not everyone wants to see NSFW photos as they shop. We recognize we aren’t for everybody, but we might be the perfect shopping experience for you! To see more of our thoughts behind Bedroom Besties, read our interviews on Racket or on Autostraddle. Our NSFW images help customers:
🔥 See the sex toys in action—we love the products we sell, as you can tell from the photos.
🔥 Explore sex and pleasure in an affirming way—our models pick the items they want to showcase and everyone is encouraged to model however they feel comfortable.
🔥 Feel seen and celebrated—because we all deserve spaces to feel sexy, confident, and empowered.
