The temperature is dropping but that doesn’t mean you have to submit to a frigid cold lifestyle. Turn on the heat while getting turned on with Bedroom Besties’ fifteen best ways to stay snuggly and sexy.
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Wear a cute (but warm) outfit. Put on some warm thigh highs, a cropped sweater, or even some sexy earmuffs to feel hot even when it’s freezing out.

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Play truth and dare. This silly game isn’t just for high school. Get naughty around the fire this year with friends and lovers alike.
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Try a warming vibrator. Don’t just get off, get off and get warm at the same time! The JimmyJane Solis Rabbit Vibrator has three powerful motors that’ll rev your engine in addition to a warming mode to add an extra layer of sensual pleasure to your playtime.
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Light some candles. Candles don’t only set the mood, but they can be a part of playtime as well. The Master Series Drip Candles have a low melting point and a unique formula perfect for wax play! Remember, don’t use regular candles for wax play as there’s a risk for serious burns!
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Build a blanket fort. Cozy up with a loved one under a blanket fort and you’ll be feeling snug and warm in no time. Add in a waterproof play blanket and the two of you will be ready to get busy without ruining grandma’s favorite quilt.
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Take a steamy bath. There’s nothing quite as soothing as a warm bath. Add in some Sliquid Balance Soak Bubble Bath and elevate bath time with the scents of coconut and papaya, green tea, limoncello or cherry blossoms. Add in this Splash Ducky Vibrator for even more fun!
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Heat yourself from the inside out with a warming prostate toy. The JimmyJane Solis Kyros Prostate Stimulator isn’t only a luxurious prostate massager with two dual motors, but also has a warming mode to help relax muscles and increase blood flow to your behind–intensifying the entire sexy experience.
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Use some sizzling lube. A clear way to heat things up! Sliquid Sizzle Warming Lube warms with friction and is glycerin and paraben free as well as hypoallergenic and non-toxic.
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Make sparks fly with a Neon Wand! This kinky toy will spark up your evening with adjustable strengths and sensations. Not ready to commit to a Neon Wand? The Master Series Spark Rod Zapping Wand gives off a loud sound and spark for kinky play but is simple and easy to use.
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Give a sensual massage. If it’s one thing that will help us get through winter, it’s physical touch. Rub your lover’s body with Dame Massage Oil, safe for external AND internal use.

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Warm a stainless steel toy. Stainless steel toys excel at hitting the G- and P-Spots due to the weight these toys carry; however they also warm up and cool down nicely. Run a stainless steel toy, such as the infamous nJoy Pure Wand, under cool water and for a pleasurable jolt of sensation once inserted. Feeling the toy warm up internally from your own body heat? Very cool.
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Get Hot And Bothered. Read or listen to some erotica and let your imagination take over. Not sure where to start? Pair with the Dame Fin Finger Vibe which will let you jerk off easily while holding a book!
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Discuss some new desires. Letting your partner know you want to try something new is both fun and scary. Now is the time to spill those degenerate dreams to your lover!
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Make hot showers even hotter. There’s nothing like a long warm shower but this can be even sexier with sex toys. We recommend the Womanizer Shower Head to get off with just water or the Bathmate Hydromax for intense pumping fun!
- Take It Slow. You’ve got months of winter, what's the rush? Slow down intimate moments with Bijoux Indiscrets Slow Sex Mouthwatering Spray. This spray helps produce our sexiest fluid–spit! Using this simple spray keeps your mouth wet for longer, better oral sex.