The rabbit might be one of the most famous sex toys ever, but when people ask me what I think of it I can barely muster up a shrug and “it’s fine.” It’s not that I don’t like the dual stimulation delight of getting my cunt fucked while my clit gets buzzed - that’s awesome, can’t get enough! But the rabbit is the bedroom equivalent of a single use kitchen tool: it does one job well enough and that’s it. I like cooking and I like fucking, so give me something that can be used in lots of fun ways. I might prefer single serving size desserts but I’m not buying a cake pop maker when I could just have an oven and a set of pans that make lots of different kinds of desserts.
The biggest issue with most rabbit vibes is that they’re one-size-fits-all which may or may not jive with your unique anatomy. Your clit has to be the exact right distance away from your vagina for it to stimulate you as intended. And if you like thrusting a toy in and out, that means the clitoral stimulation will be intermittent in strength as it moves towards and away from your clit. If you prefer intense, consistent clitoral contact this type of stimulation may leave you feeling unsatisfied.
There’s a super easy fix to this problem and it doesn’t have to cost you a penny more than a rabbit vibe. Just get two toys!
You can get a huge dildo and a tiny bullet vibe that’s great for travel. You can get a big, rumbley wand and a long slim g-spot stimulator. You can get an air pressure vibe and a thruster that does the work for you. You dream it, you build it! There are a limited number of rabbit designs in the world but there are literally thousands of combinations you can create between our external vibes, air pressure toys, dildos, and internal vibes.
If you have dexterity issues that complicate holding two toys at once try a dildo with a strong suction cup and stick it to a chair, or consider a pillow that can hold a wand or a dildo in place for you.
With an internal toy combined with an external toy you can dual stimulate yourself exactly how you like and you can enjoy these toys independently of each other. Obviously we at Bedroom Besties love using all kinds of toys as a part of partnered sex, but we also know a small vibe can be easier to incorporate into partner play, especially if toys are a new aspect of your relationship. When you Build-Your-Own-Rabbit you can choose two toys that can work for two different sex goals.