Have you ever thought: “My sex life is great…but could it be greater?” The answer is yes. Yes, your sex life is great! Yes, it could be even greater! And the answer to making it greater isn’t a bedroom remodel, a tantric retreat, or a bunch of expensive lingerie or jock straps you’ll never wear.
Sexy upgrades can be small, cheap, and extremely fun! No need to break the bank to break your back!
Here are seven tiny tweaks that will give you major bang for your buck (and your bits).
1. The Itty Bitty Teeny Tiny Upgrade: A Stronger Bullet Vibe
We’re starting strong, literally. Most folks will use a bullet toy to upgrade a dildo or on its own, but frequently bullet vibes are left forgotten on the bottom of the sex toy drawer to rot. This is because a lot of them are just meh. It’s hard to pack a lot of power into something small, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be done! Treat yourself to power that actually follows through on its promises (unlike your ex).
Try the Bedroom Bestie fav Joie Bullet.
2. The Fun Comes With: A Cute Mini Vibe You Can Take Anywhere
You know how sunglasses make any outfit hotter? Same with a travel-friendly vibe! You just feel more powerful knowing it’s in your bag. Use alone, with a partner, or just for ✨emotional support✨ during stressful errands. You’ll always be ready for a meet-cute-turned steamy situation with a portable vibe!
Find your portable power with the Crave Vesper Necklace Vibrator.
3. Get Ready For All Weather: A Warming or Cooling Lube
A little heat? A little tingle? Make your body go HELLOOOO with warming or cooling lube! These lubes are little tubes of magic, making every intimate encounter sensational. These lubes are also great if you struggle with getting into the moment during sex. The added sensation helps you focus on your body and being present in the moment.
Warm up with Sliquid Sizzle Water based Lube.
4. The Foreplay Cheat Code: Blindfolds + A Little Tease
If it were possible, we’d make sure every order included a blindfold. Adding a blindfold into foreplay can make every touch, smell or sound sexier. A soft blindfold adds tension, teasing, and can put your lover’s anticipation on overdrive. Perfect for beginners. Perfect for cowards (in a cute way). Perfect for everyone!
Blindfold me, daddy with the Sex & Mischief Satin Blindfold.
5. The Least-Scary Upgrade Ever: A Starter Plug That Doesn’t Intimidate
Tiny. Smooth. Friendly. If you’ve ever considered trying anal but felt overwhelmed, start here. Rome wasn’t built in a day so let your anal journey take its time. No reason to go big when you can choose something small and friendly for your bum’s first time..
The friendliest plug → B-Vibe Dart Silicone Plug.
6. The Bonus Round Upgrade: A Cockring That Doesn’t Try too Hard
Some cock rings look like they’re about to major in engineering, with interesting shapes and textures and knobs and twists and turns. Not this one. A basic cockring will be easy to wear, stretchy and gives just enough of a squeeze to let you and your lover’s play longer.
For stretchy joy, try the Hünkyjunk Huj C-Ring.
7. The Get To Know Your Lovers Better Upgrade: Dice, Cards, or a Dare Game
Sometimes you just need a prompt! Sexy games pull you out of your head and into the moment—and they guarantee at least one surprising “oh???” for everyone involved. Games let you literally play with your lover, letting you two learn more about each other’s preferences, history and desires while keeping things lighthearted
Pull a card with the Biird Together Couples Card Game.
Final Thought: Pleasure Doesn’t Have to Be a Big Project
If you take away anything today, let it be this: Tiny upgrades can add a major spark in the bedroom. You deserve toys and tools that delight you, surprise you, and make your sex life greater than it already is!